I will be re-capping this season of Bachelor Pad, omg, yes, that is right. I am committed to re-capping this ridiculously wonderful show! Also, even more exciting is that I am going to be a contributor on The Insider.com, with a link to my blog, so I am hoping that I will get more traffic that way!
I am very sorry for not re-capping and blogging this season of The Bochelorette. No, you did not read that wrong, it's not a typo... this season was a botched epic fail!!! Well, not really... I mean, what was I expecting??? I am just trying to blame my non-blogging on something besides myself!! Well, good news, the season is over and we can focus on Bachelor Pad... I can get a fresh start.So anyway, what does everyone think of Ashley picking JP? I think it was pretty obvious she was seriously infatuated with him, right? So it was not a big surprise.
The biggest take home message I got after watching the finale is that I really think Ashley is just not a nice person. I had forgotten about it, but I actually am pretty sure I called her out for not really being a good friend when she was on Brad's season. She is really NOT the kind of person I would ever want to be friends with. I remember how she acted on her two on one date with Brad and the other Ashley.... which was she was out for herself.
I also got this vibe from her at the MTA taping. I found her to be not really all that nice to the press and just got a general vibe that she is kind of stand-off-ish and not interested in really connecting with people.
But the main reason I now think that she is pretty rude, is that I REALLY think that she led Ben on. It's not just because that dude was SO SURE that he was going to marry her and "get a new addition to the family," but I saw the way that Ashley was acting to him in the mud bath. I am sorry, but she DEFINITELY was leading him on. I mean, yeah I get that you are "dating two men" blah blah blah whatever. AND, if she really DID have to figure out who she was going to pick, then that would be one thing. But I think it was really obvious that she was going to pick JP from the get-go... so she could have been dropping some hints to Ben that he would not be getting the final rose, rather than rubbing mud into his crotch and making him and the rest of America VERY uncomfortable.I think she genuinely got an ego trip out making Ben fall for her like that. Well, I guess she really needed one since she is so insecure. I really didn't buy any of her "Oh Ben, I really care about you, I feel so honored to have had you in my life!" I think she's a bit narcissistic.
As for her sister, I'm not really sure about that... at first, I thought the sisterWAS being rude and blunt. But then when Ashley confronted her, I was pretty annoyed with Ashley. She seriously did just want her sister's approval, not her honest opinion. It was pretty annoying. If either of those chicks was my sister, I would just leave the family. Oh, also... her sister is definitely prettier than Ashley, other than her sleeves.
Note to self: do not be a blunt bitch to younger sisters or brother.
So, this brings us to the next big life moment to ponder... who will BTNB (Be The Next Bachelor). Has anyone heard any rumors? I checked Reality Steve, but didn't see anything about who would BNTB. I am hoping that it will be Ben.
Now realistically, I think that RYAN would make the best NB (Next Bachelor). However, I am so in love with him, that I would have a nervous meltdown watching a whole season of hot, skinny girls throwing themselves all over him. Here is why he is perfect though. He is HOT. He is successful, nice, genuine... and best of all... a bit "off." Now, don't get me wrong, I am in love with him and hoping he calls (I slipped him my #### at the MTA). But I can definitely see why he is not for some people... after closely observing him this season, I have concluded that even though *I* am in love with him and definitely think he should marry me (I would be perfect for him), I can see how he is kind of intense and goofy or a "goober." (That is not my word, the Southern dude called him that at the MTA). He is pretty dramatic, so he would really be a good NB, because he would no doubt create lots of intense drama... he would cry, fall in love with several girls, talk about having no idea how hard it would be, etc. So really he would be the best. DAMN! But I want him for myself!!!
Anyway, we'll see, I guess.
It will be funny when/if her sister is right and Ashley and JP break up. Now, I have to say that I thought she should pick JP all along, but then my sister Grace pointed out a good theory... that Ben would actually BE better for her and she just wants JP bc he is the hot guy she could never get in real life. One good thing is that JP lives a lot closer to her and her family and where she's from, so I think that is helpful.
Overall, I have gone from being neutral about Ashley, to really not liking her that much at all. And I pretty much am really just not that interested in her or JP. I AM in love with Ryan.
Oh yeah, so remember on Ali's season, when I also fell madly in love with Chris L.... well, I am happy to report in case anyone was wondering that I am totally over him.
ANYWAY, I am 85.6% sure that I WILL commit to blogging and re-capping "The Pad." Last time, I dissed it, but this time I'm thinking I really owe the world since I bailed out on Bashley.
As soon as I know for sure, I will post and let you know for sure whether I will or will not re-cap it. It looks like it should be good and nasty!!
Well guys, I am pretty excited for tonight's Ep of The Bachelorette, how about you???
Did you notice that last week was a REPEAT?? Seriously?? Do you realize that is the first time EVER in the HISTORY of The Bachelorette (that I can remember) that they actually showed a RE-run?? Wow. What gives??
Anyway, the most exciting thing about tonight is that Em is going to sit down w/ Hare and talk about her break-up with Womack, which is now official.
I read the article and she said some business about Paparazi hiding out in her bushes. I dunno about that, really. I see paparazi footage every day and have also been following her story and I really haven't seen much footage of her trolling around Charlotte.
Brad and Emily were NEVER going to last, I think we could all tell that as soon as the finale aired last season. I'm just glad Hare got her to talk about it.
Also, let's see if she does the Bachelorette.... hmmm....
And I guess we'll continue to watch poor B-Ashley get trashed and abused by the show as well tonight! Fun times!
Remember the SATs? Well I have an analogy for you all.
Bentley is to Ashley as... ABC is to me. I tuned in on Monday night to see Bentley come back!!!! The promos specifically SAID that he was coming back NEXT WEEK. Not just in general in the future on the season, no it specifically said he was coming back THIS WEEK.
And just like Bentley tricked Ashley into thinking he's her future husband and soul mate, ABC tricked me into thinking B-dawg was coming back. I know that I have said I'm over the Bentley story-line, which I am. But I really wanted to see if she was finally going to figure out what a miserable D-bag he is. I still find the whole thing very confusing.... not exactly sure why ABC is allowing this shite to play out. It is offensive to me, to Ashley and to all the women in America and throughout the world, as well as to our women ancestors who fought for our right to vote. Also it's obvious that Ashley is partly not moving on, because she clearly watched The Bachelorette starring Jillian in which Ed "left" then "came back." Clearly THAT was scripted and made up to create drama. So she is confused as to if this is some other producer-made up drama, which is the real reason Bentley left. So she is "being true" to her feelings.... which is her infatuation with Bentley and her belief that he only left bc the producers wanted to create drama. She wants him to come back and win the final rose, just like Ed did.
So anyway, in the spirit of treachery and trickery that ABC is promoting, this is not going to be a real re-cap. As we all know, I have really been lagging behind in my blogging this season. So let's just run down the cast of characters and get our (my) thoughts and opinions out there for the world to enjoy.
FIRST UP! is Ashley, naturally. Ok you guys. Now I know that I have been defending her since last season w/ Womack, saying "Ashley is NOT insecure you guys... Brad just makes her FEEL insecure." Well I am here to tell you that I [finally] see it. I still like her okay... I mean, definitely I like her better than Ali. But she REALLY needs to let go of this whole "I know most of you boys aren't going to fall in love with little ole' me!"
I mean, I get feeling that way a little bit. It's definitely true that even though the show is set up to have all the men fighting over one girl, in reality all the men really are NOT necessarily going to be into her. And it would be hard to be Ashley because you really would NOT probably be able to tell who was really into you and who was just going along with the competition. Furthermore, I hate to add to Ashley's insecurity, but she IS right that she isn't very sexy.NOW, don't get me wrong. I do think that she is cute and petite and dresses like an Olsen twin. And aside from her insecurity, she does seem like a nice girl, and I do support how she seems to be very honest with her feelings. HOWEVER, yeah, she really unfortunately is on to something when she notes that not all men are going to be into her.
But I mean, all men are not going to be into MOST women, so she really has nothing to worry about. You don't need ALL or MOST men to be in love with you... you really only need ONE dude to be in love with you if you want to get married. So let's all just settle down now.
But yeah, Chantal and Emily were sexy and pretty and curvy, so yeah, most men I think WOULD be in love with them... (although some people are turned off by Emily's copious amounts of plastic surgery and fake teeth and hair). Anyway.... one other thing to note about Ash. When she was on her one-on-one date with Constantine, she stopped a poor little Thai man who was just innocently trying to live his life and started pressing him for marriage advice. He said that you have to always forgive and forget, and that it's not about "winning." CLEARLY he meant it's not about winning an argument with your wife!! Well, Ashley TOTALLY misinterpreted this and somehow thinks that it not being about "winning" has something to do with the twisted little contest they have going on there on the show.... like it's not about "winning" the Bachelorette, it's about having a true connection. I very much think she missed the point of this advice. Ha! Oh wells....
JP. So, I'm pretty sure she should pick JP. I will have to stay tuned and see what else develops, but right now I'm pretty sure he would be her best choice. He really does seem to be into her, although I'm not exactly sure why. I said before that I think he likes the ladies... so I don't know how genuine or specific his feelings for her are. But they are both from the East Coast, the Northern East Coast, so that is a definite advantage.Also, he is REALLY cute. He is not really my type, what with the bald head and all, but he is DEFINITELY hot. He is cute like Matthew McConaughey. Now when they were getting their wrestle on, he made a comment about "I am the smallest guy here." I haven't especially noticed that he seems "small." But if he IS small, short, petite, whatever... then I think that makes him an even BETTER match for our teeny little Ash.
So, all in all, I like him and his smile and his dimples and he seemingly easy-going personality and I think she should pick him.
RYAN, THE SUN GOD. Now, don't think that I have forgotten about this ridiculous pose he did in the pilot, nor have I forgotten about how he bragged about starting his solar wind green turbo hydro electric pure fuel company or whatever it is. He started with one employee then grew it to --- however many. While I am not that impressed with Al Gore, I guess that it IS cool he "runs" a company he started (if that's really true).Anyway, now THIS dude IS my type!!! He is really hot. So Ash -- please don't pick him, so that I can have him instead. So I've been paying close attention to how all the other guys think he is the most annoying man in the house. I have to admit, I don't quite see how he is so offensive. They all say that he is extremely intense. This is NOT a cute trait AT ALL. But he's not striking me as that intense in like a really negative, creepy way. He does seem like he has a lot of energy perhaps and is sort of busting at the seams. But then again, he also seems like he's pretty positive.I did spot the part when he went and kicked the luggage they were dragging away after both dudes got sent home on the two-on-one date and thought that could be pretty annoying to have a dude who is always jumping around and throwing and kicking things. But then when he's talking to Ashley and having real conversations, he seems like his head is on straight.... and it's got to count for something that he has that power company, right?? So, we shall see, I suppose. I will let you know as soon as I see/discover that he is annoying and intense.
AMES. Now this boy turned me off in Episode One when he started talking about how he went to Princeton, then Yale, then Harvard, then Stanford, then Oxford in England, then Duke, then Brown, then MIT, then CalTech, then UNC-Charlotte, then LA Valley College, then Emory, then Ivory, then took a night class in wood-working. Like, OMG, u guys. Wow. Afraid of the real world much??? Going to expensive, fancy, private schools is real cute and all, but I'm not really that impressed until someone shows me the ability to actually make it in the REAL world, where they have to WORK for MONEY in order to pay theirs BILLS and survive.
If you are 27 and you are still on your Mommy's cell phone plan (which she PAYS) then you REALLY need to check yourself before you start calling ME and MY life choices irrational and crazy. Yes "scientist" (but really just a student) ex-boyfriend, I am talking to you. Why don't you go out and get a big-boy job and then get back to me on who is the irresponsible, nonsensical one. Thanks!!
Damn!!! I need to cool off for a second. As you can clearly see, I have personal issues with this situation.Soooooooooooooooooooooooooo..... deep breath. Ames had a lot to prove to me. But now I do think that he is so sweet!!!! I LOVE AMES!!! He seems like such a sweet gentle cute smart little dude! And he's this cute little pacifist who doesn't even know how to fight and got a concussion while wearing pink boxing gear! Awwwwwwwwwwwwww. I think maybe he should be the next Bachelor. HE is the kind of guy that every girl should marry. Maybe Ashley should pick him. But I can't really tell how into each other they are or not. He seems like he's one of the guys that really IS into her. I'm not sure if she is that into him?? I really don't know. But she should really consider choosing him, if she doesn't choose JP. Or maybe she should pick Ames over JP anyway. He is so cute!
WILLIAM. OMG. What is WRONG with this guy?!??!?!???!!!!! I mean, he didn't really do much of note the past two episodes until his ass got thrown off after the two on one date. I thought it was pretty lame how he sold out that one guy - whatever the hell his name was - that he was on the two on one date with, saying "He can't wait to go home and Internet date." But I mean, whatever... I guess I can somewhat overlook that since he apparently DID say it "in jest." But what I really can NOT support William doing is when he is like "Some of the guys here are still thinking about you, and some are NOT." Then Ashley was like "Ughh... that just gives me this horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach." Yeah. That was a really insensitive comment. Whether or not and how much truth is in it is really irrelevant in my opinion. I have NO interest or respect for people who say things that make other people feel bad.For example, let's say that Person A called me fat to Person B, and then Person B came and told me that Person A said I was fat. Personally, I will have more of an issue with Person B than Person A. If someone wants to say or think negative things about me or others... whatever, that is their opinion and business. But the person I REALLY have issue with is the one who is dumb and insensitive enough to go TELL me it and make me feel HORRIBLE!!! So yeah, I have no use for William who is going around saying things that make people feel bad about themselves. But even as bad as he was starting to come off while he was ON the show, nothing can compare to his dramatic, crazy-laced exit!!! What in the HELL!?!??!?!? OMG!! He straight up said that when he looks in the mirror, he sees a loser. Uhmmm, ok. You wanna talk about insecure??? He said his whole life was pure S, that he ruins everything he ever does and that he was just going to go back to his miserable hidey hole. Uhmmm, wow dude. Seriously, seek counseling. You can tell that he is pretty messed up. He goes around being all "funny" but obviously he has some DEEP issues inside that he seriously needs to address. (Footnote: I think the guy in the picture isn't actually William, but some other dude from the first Episode... but wouldn't it be so much funnier if it WAS William? Hahaha).
I also liked how Ashley said that she had a spark with him at first, and took him out on this two on one date to see if she could get it back. But she couldn't. EVER. That does totally happen sometimes. I have definitely met people and swooned, thinking "Ohhhh lalalala, oh wow!!" But then once you get to know them, you are like "OMG." Then you get all embarrassed that you ever liked them, and fervently deny it for the rest of your life. BAM, that's William. Oh. I also thought it was pretty funny when she was like "You know how you said you were a thirty-year-old boy?" And he was all "Yeah!!! I never wanna grow up, omg, I can't believe you actually remember that I said that. Wow." And then she was like "Uhm yeah. I'm looking for a MAN. Bye!"HAHAHAHA!!! Truth!!! I am also interested in a MAN, not some BOY who doesn't want to grow up! WHY would someone think that is a good selling point -- that they don't want to grow up?
MICKEY.I still cannot forgive nor forget what he did the first night, which was try to kiss her as soon as he got out of the limo. She ducked away and was freaked out. And the look on his face was one of the skeeviest I've ever seen in my life. So I just think he is soooooo creepy and nasty and I feel dirty just looking at him on the TV screen in my apartment. I hope he goes away soon.
BEN F AND CONSTANTINE. Wait, these are two separate people??
BLAKE AND LUCAS. No one cares about them. So I'll be tuning in next week to see if Ashley can finally get some "closure" from the Bent-ster. Luckily I have so far been successful in avoiding any spoilers, so I really don't know who is going to win.
Hello everyone!!!! I have missed you all dearly. I know we are already on the third episode, so I am just going to jump in now! No point in re-capping episodes that aired weeks ago. No one cares about last week. I will just mention some thoughts I had about people and previous episodes as we go along.
Oh, but how can I not mention the interpretive dance Ashley did to get over Brad???
ANYWAY!!! Back to Monday. The first date is a solo date with one Ben C. He's not much to look at, but he loves to dance, ladies. He loves to dance. Ashley, truly being a dancer herself and only masquerading as a "dentist" therefore thinks he is the perfect candidate for the flash-mob date that she has planned.First they head off to a dance studio where Ashley channels her inner Cheryl Burke and teaches Ben some dance.... but he doesn't know WHY or what it's for.
Then they go and picnic on a giant lawn, when Ashley just suddenly gets the idea that they should stand up and do the dance they just choreographed. Ben is a good sport and goes along with it.
Before they know it, they are joined by all the lookers-on and a true Flash Mob is had.
Now. I do NOT know why...... but for some reason, I thought this was totally cute. Perhaps my ice cold heart of steel and stone is melting?!?!?!?!??!!??!!! COULD THAT REALLY BE?!?!
I don't know. But I felt like this old man as I watched:I just think it's interesting how communication technology advances and then these weird phenomena pop up and life changes.
Also, I really like Far East Movement. I think this is the first time a band was on The Bachelorette that I actually liked and heard of. I guess I've heard of some of the other bands, but haven't been into them. Anyway, I totally support FEM, I love those Asian gangstas!!
So, Ben and Ash then go have dinner where Ben proceeds to tell Ashley that he is looking for unrealistic over the top sparkling and glittering eternal love. Ok, no worries, my stone cold heart is back. PLEASE!! I was totally turned off by this monologue. I mean, I'm sure being in love is a great feeling, but seriously you guys... it takes a lot more than just that to build a life together. This is my opinion.
Anyway, she gives him a rose, blah blah blah.
Meanwhile back in the mansion, the group date is next. Invited are: Ames, Ben F(?), Blake, Jeff, Lucas, Nick, Ryan, William, Bentley... and the guy reading the date card, whoever that is.
These clowns will be going to a comedy club to roast Ashley. Uhmm.... hmmmm.... I am NOT sure that is a good idea. Very risky, indeed. I think that is a pretty dangerous endeavor to roast the girl you are dating, right when you have first met her. So CLEARLY this was a brilliant date idea on the part of the producers... this should be sure to stir up some drama.
Before the date, Masked Jeff takes Ashley aside and says that he is ready to take off the mask. Now, the first night, I could NOT stand the mask-guy. I thought that it was one hundred percent ridiculous. I do NOT believe that the only thing that matters is what's on the inside. Plus, it's just stupid and gimmicky, and he really seemed to be taking it seriously, which I do NOT support. But eventually, by week two and three, I was starting to think he was kind of funny. Clearly, he played along for the skit where they filmed him on the toilet wearing his mask. He swam laps in the pool with his mask on and agreed when another Bachelor said he should have worn a white mask, because it was so hot out. So then I started thinking it was kind of funny because it was so ridiculous and awkward.Anyway, the whole stunt definitely did NOT play out to his favor. Chris Harrison said it somewhere that if you are going to don a mask for "three weeks" that you should really look like Brad Pitt underneath it. Word. Mask boy looked like he COULD have had a cute face under there, from what we could see of it... but I'm not going to lie, I was on the whole, disappointed when he took it off.
And so was the local wild life.And so was Ashley.
They rejoin the guys and head off to the comedy club. So the basic theme of the night was that Ashley has flat boobs. That and some of the guys just decided to make fun of the other guys --- always a safe bet.William, however, took it to the next level, saying that when he signed up to do The Bachelorette, he wanted to meet Emily or Chantal, but instead was disappointed to discover the Bachelorette was Ashley. FUNNY!!Not.
Soooo, this created some good drama. Ashley took it okay as she sat there, but afterwards, she went off into the folding chairs and was sobbing. I kind of found the whole incident interesting. You could tell that William really did feel terrible that he made her so upset and realized later that it was a BAD joke.
So when we first met William, in episode one, I totally thought he was cute as his umbrella kept popping inside out. He said that the whole string of women he dated previously had then gone on to marry the next guy they dated after him. He was ready for his luck to turn around. As I beheld him and noted his striking resemblance to Prince William, I could not imagine why this handsome young man was still single.
Well, now I totally get it. He is super annoying. And also immature. I felt bad for him that he made that bad joke... I mean, we can all relate to putting your foot in your mouth. But what I thought was telling was when Ashley was talking with him afterwards and he was basically like "There is nothing I can say or do to make this up to you, just go talk to another guy." To me, that is just immature. I mean, it is understandable that he would feel that way, but you kind of have to just be more mature, own your mistake and really apologize. You can't just totally bail out on a relationship bc you messed up and hurt the other person. So in my opinion, he's not really ready for a relationship. I got why Ashley felt frustrated that after saying that, he couldn't just comfort her, instead he was just like defeated.Now. I also gained some new respect for Ashley this episode. I feel like she really is "putting herself out there" and/or being honest with her feelings and emotions. Now, I am NOT saying that I "believe in the process" or anything like that. Obviously I think this is a ridiculous endeavor to take if you seriously want to find love. (But maybe she doesn't know that.. haha!) BUTTT she really does seem open and honest about what she is feeling, which I really like. I felt like Ali just spouted random crap that I could not relate to. I mean, I know they all *SAY* they are open, but Ashley seems like she really IS.
Last season, I would like to say that I NEVER really thought she was that insecure. I know that she came off that way, but I personally never got the vibe that SHE HERSELF was just standardly insecure, it always seemed to me that it was Womack who really brought out that insecurity in her.I liked the part when she came over to the guys after the show and said "I am NOT trying to point the finger or make anyone feel bad, but the notion that you wish I wasn't the Bachelorette hit on a nerve with me, and that is just how I am feeling right now." I highly support that. What I have learned in the past few years of my life, is that you REALLY should just say what you mean. I know that women are not wired this way... instead women are like "That roast was high-larious and nothing that anyone said hurt my feelings, I am the most easy-going lady on the planet!!!!!!!!!" That is a really bad life and communication strategy is what I have come to learn. No one can read anyone else's mind, so you will really be better off if you just speak the truth.
SIDENOTE: this is ESPECIALLY true at work. I get that it is hard in your personal life to be all "Yo dudes, I am offended and sad." BUT seriously at work, there is REALLLLY no reason to beat around the bush and be all "Wellll... maybe next time, if it's possible you could do this little different, I mean, if you want to and all." Just be explicit, y'all!
Anyway. So William went off and sad sadly reflected on his deeds on Hollywood Boulevard while Ashley just couldn't focus on having quality time with the rest of the men.
Meanwhile, I too am considering being more open in life, and "putting myself out there" as they say. But then again, maybe not.
Bentley decided to seize this opportunity to "mess with Ashley's head" and console her that he's into her, etc, etc, etc.
All right, so let's address this whole Bentley issue. Even though I basically think the whole thing is so ridiculous that it's really beneath me to mention it, I guess I will have to say how I feel about it.
So, really, it kind of just confuses me all around. It is OBVIOUSLY produced... I'm just not really sure whose idea the whole thing was. Like, was this Bentley's idea to act like this?? Like go on the show and be the biggest jerk in the entire history of the show??? Do the producers think this is entertaining to watch?? I just don't get it. I wanted to hear what Reality Steve had to say about it, but I also don't want to read any spoilers. Luckily my sister perused the site for me, but it didn't seem like Reality Steve had much to contribute. According to her, he was just kind of like "Oh the producers can soooo manipulate this." Well yeah, they can. DUH. But CLEARLY Bentley is in on this. I mean, the whole Wes thing, I really never bought into... THAT I thought was just a case of giving him a bad edit. The Rozlyn thing was shady too... But there is NO WAY anyone can claim that Bentley is merely getting a bad edit, but is in fact a nice guy. So I'm not really sure what the point of him is.
It is NOT fun to watch. It's not even interesting. Here is a Public Service Announcement for ABC: I didn't tune into The Bachelorette to watch men degrade and use women. If I wanted to see that, I could just look at the world around me. Uhmm... or watch a bad movie.... sorry, trying to be less negative/bitter. I just really find the whole plot stupid and beneath my dignity. ALSO, I really kind of feel bad for Ashley... unless she's just playing along with it, she seemed really hurt. So it really seems MEAN for the producers to just let him clearly state all that crap about tickling his p*ckle, hooking up with her and dumping her, etc, then go lie to her face. It's just offensive and I really have no use for it in my life. I am not getting any Take Home Messages from his BS.
Anyway, Ashley gives the rose to that super hot guy on this date. That guy is REALLY cute, she should definitely give him the final rose.
The fact that she gave the rose to him and not to Bentley causes Bentley to decide it's time for him to peace out.
So of course the next day, we are treated to a shot of Ashley telling us how much she just LOVES Bentley!! You guys, if this were the very ending right now, she would *totes* pick B....
Which just makes it alllll the more dramatic when he goes to dump her.
So the whole dumping was really painful and offensive to watch as well. He decided to pretend that he misses his daughter and that is the reason he is going home. Unfortunately Ashley "falls" for it and lets him go. He continues making super creepy comments to the camera the whole while, saying that she is the kind of girl he would hook up with and never call again.
It was really anti-climactic actually, because she still never saw his true colors. She just bought his story about his daughter... and THEN to make things as bad as possible, he said let's not end this with a period, but rather a DOT DOT DOT. First of all, I don't appreciate him stealing my phrases and sayings that I use in real life. And second of all, that is the WORST ending possible to a relationship. It doesn't let you really end it and move on, it just keeps you hoping it will be re-kindled. I mean, I guess that is the point, since apparently the whole Bentley story line is all about let's be the biggest possible jerk.
But really it was kind of just a let down and not interesting AT ALL since she still never saw his true colors... so the deception just went on, and it's like - who cares.
I think the best part of her getting dumped was when the camera pulled out and we got to see Jimmy Kimmel watching Ashley crying in bed. "He's a jerk!!!!" said Kimmel. Then he told us that Ashley would be sitting down to talk on his show the next day.
So I forgot to Tivo that, but fortunately, I found the video online..... on my YouTube channel. Wow, how did that happen?!?!?!
It's still not really clear to me though from this interview, WHAT exactly in the hell is going on.
After Bentley made like a tree and scrambled, Ashley then had a hot stay-at-home date with JP. Now THAT is what I'm talking about. The next time some guy pretends that he likes me, but really wishes that I was Chantal or Emily, then uses his daughter as an excuse as to why he can't be with me... I hope that a HOT man like JP comes over to comfort me immediately afterwards.
I think we all know that the only way to get over one man is to get under another. So Ashley puts that old adage into practice with one JP. Nice. JP is very good looking, despite his bald head. He seems very sweet too, but I'm not sure if he's genuine. He kind of strikes me as a lover of women, which I am okay with. Like, I feel like he probably gets a lot of ladies... and maybe doesn't necessarily make a habit of calling them the next day. But to me, he's only doing that because he really loves the ladies and being with the ladies, NOT because he thinks it's a fun sport to add notches to his belt, like B evidently does.
I can't really tell how much chemistry Ashley has with him or not. Actually, overall, I can't really tell who she is most into and who might get the final rose. Anyway, she gives JP a rose, obviously.
The next day, Ash has a fireside chat with Hare... mainly about Bentley. I really thought that he was going to spill the beans to her and be all "Well, you know Bent was totally playing you." He was kind of like trying to guide her that way and hint and teased me into thinking he he might say something, but he didn't. He kept saying "Welllll... isn't it kind of FAST to fall so hard for someone??" "Do you think it's just because Michelle warned you about him and you want what you can't have??"
She says "Maybe. I just don't know anymore. In my gut, I still think that he was telling the truth, but I don't know."
NOW, I am very curious to find out what she has to say when and IF she finds out about his deception. I have definitely had feelings in my guts about guys that they were good guys... and been WRONG. So I'm wondering if she feels that her gut compass needs to be reset or anything???
I would say -- that I can relate to falling HARD for someone, even when it doesn't necessarily make sense, but I really can NOT relate to falling FAST for someone. No way would I ever be that attached to someone I met 3 days ago. That would NEVER happen to me, I am WAY to skeptical of strangers. But you know, that's cute for anyone who can fall that fast.
OMG, ok, anyway. After their heart to heart, Ashley tells Chris that she is in no mood for a cocktail party tonight. THANK GOD... neither was I.
So they go have the rose ceremony and she sends home mask-boy and some other guy that no one knows.
Now THAT has GOT to sting, you guys. Can you imagine!?!?!?!!!! Getting dumped as soon as you show your face. OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I'm actually not surprised that she kept William around. I think she really does like him a lot. But I don't think he's probably a good idea for a relationship. I can kind of overlook the bad joke (not really). But the fact that he just can't cope with the gaffe is pretty bad.
Soooooooooooooooooooo....... I guess we'll see what happens next, and it better be GOOD.
Yours in the Single Life, Julie Julie
PS -- Ashley really needs some new fake eyelashes. I recently discovered the art of enhancing your eyelashes. Now I KNEW that people went around wearing fake eyelashes, but I did NOT know that you can actually get eyelash extensions. ALSO.... this is even more profound, did you guys know that you can DYE your eyelashes?!?!?! I guess I have heard of or seen signs for "eyelash tinting" but I never knew what in the hell that was. WELL, I finally discovered that you basically just dye your eye lashes. The point is basically so that your eyelashes always look dark, even when you are not wearing mascara.
As all this knowledge seeped into my brain, you can believe that I was DYING to go get some eyelash extensions STAT. They are really expensive though. And I was thinking about what my family in North Carolina would think of me if I got EYELASH EXTENSIONS. They would really think that I've gone totally LA and lost touch w/ reality. So I decided that as a compromise, I would immediately go get my eye lashes tinted. This is what I would say about the results. It DOES help. My eyelashes are definitely basically black now, even w/o mascara, so that is certainly a nice addition to my life. But obviously they are not thicker or longer..... so all I'm saying y'all is that I have not ruled out eyelash extensions all together.
